Obama "bullying" incident goes up in a puff of video

I'm seeing conservatives touting a story from Dreams from my Father as evidence that President Obama "bullied" someone, thereby neutralizing the allegations that Mitt Romney bullied a gay kid.

Only that's not how the girl involved remembers Obama:

More here: http://www.slate.com/blogs/weigel/2012/05/11/the_search_for_the_elusive_exploding_cigar.html

Of course, the kid Romney is accused of bullying is now dead, but he reportedly was troubled by the incident later in life, and I'm fairly certain his memories of Romney wouldn't have been anything like as fond.